How to Enjoy Your Date When Mom or Dad Chaperone – Part 1
So you’ve met someone you’re really into. They’ve got the 4 things you look for: hot looks, cool personality, book smarts, and a hilarious disposition. Bingo! You’re in there like swimwear.
Now it’s time to go on that first date and who insists on coming along but Mom or Dad. Ugh! The agony! How are you supposed to get your groove on when the ‘rents are tagging along?? Sure, they may be needed to chauffeur you around, but you know their main motive is to chaperone. Of course they have your best interest at heart and they know you’re responsible, but it can be irritating when you’re trying to do your own thing. Here’s how to make the best of this unfavorable situation:
- Put it in perspective for them. Remind Mom or Dad that you are on an actual date. That means no embarrassing stories about how you used to fart to the tune of Mary Had a Little Lamb when you were a little eight years old.
- Get some space. Let Mom or Dad know that you are attempting to get to know your new boo, and you can’t do that if they are going to be all in your business during the date. One of my first dates was at a concert. My mom and older sis came along but Mom purchased their tickets all the way on the other side of the arena. The only time we saw them was before and after the concert. It worked out great. If you’re going to the movies, ask Mom or Dad to sit in another theatre or see something else. That way, you both get what you want. You get to have your space and Mom or Dad get to tag along and make sure things are going smoothly.
Join us for Part 2 of this series where we will discuss how to establish a code and be cool with Mom or Dad just a stone’s throw away from you and your date. Ciao!
