Hey Josh

maybe josh doesn’t, but Cimie does! I have the same problem with trusting the male type…. you need to ask yourself WHY you can’t trust girls..and then address the problem. Maybe you think they’re liars because you are…IDK. It will also get better with time, especially if you’ve been hurt before.

I promise you, not all girls are liars all of the time, some aren’t liars any time! maybe you’ve just made some bad choices in the girls you’ve trusted, or maybe it’s a deeper issue. Have you been seriously betrayed by someone important to you? Are you paranoid? Is it only girls you don’t trust, girls you’re in relationships with, or everyone? You have to break down the problem and isolate the cause, then work on whatever it is that’s keeping you from trusting others.

Peace out, and good luck ;D

Dude try asking some questions. Play a question game or something where you can each ask something and learn something about the other person. Eventually she’ll open up and you can too as the questions get more and more personal. From there the seed of trust is planted and the tree of friendship (or in your case a relationship) will grow =D.
Good Luck Bro,
D.

Yo Dan,

I used to be a lot like you. I always had this really natural distrust of the opposite sex, and I could never really figure out why. Then I ended up dating this girl for 7 months, and I realized why it was:
They Think Differently Than Us guys.
Now before somebody jumps on me about being sexist or something – know that I’m not. Girls aren’t dumber, aren’t less apt than a guy at anything – but the differences in the most basic instincts of each sex creates very different ways of thinking.

It’s tough to understand a girl’s mind. I would say it’s impossible, but I’m sure some genius somewhere out there has pulled it off.
Anyways, for me, once I realized that, I understood why I couldn’t trust them, which then helped me trust them.

Maybe you got cheated on, or had your trust betrayed in the past or something. Maybe you have the same problem I did. Who knows? But find out what the source of the problem is, and work from there.

If you can’t trust a girl, you obviously don’t know her well enough. Trusting someone with your deepest darkest thoughts can be rushed just as much as the more physical bit. How long have the relationships lasted? Months? Years? (If it’s years you have waited to long to ask, just saying)A movie date? Try to take that into consideration, when you say you can never trust girls. For the analyzing, I would just advise you to: ANALYZE AWAY, but don’t beleive any of it. Try to come up with the MOST REDICULOUS, MOST SILLY, bit of unauthorized conclusion jumping to about the girls you date, then shove it out the window. Hope this helps!

If you can not trust anyone and you usally talk to yourself and you dont have many friends…then all you have to do is go out there and be yourslef and you wil find your best friend sowner than later. I meet mine in girl scouts and then she quiet and then a month later i quiet and then [[5 years later ]] i meet her back up in 6th grade,[[she reconized my face]]. And after that we had aloTT in common and like we spend the whole summe together and know we are best friend..we have had fights,but all time it has been me that has started the fights but i am the one that finishes it and says i am sorry. sometimes it is not good enuff for them but if you just keeop saying your sorry and it was your fault sometimes they say o.k and then your best freinds again..or just friends..but just start there again and then work your way up to the best friend zone, then you can start over and have her trust back..