Josh On Why Miley Cyrus Is Still a Kid…and Why That’s OK
Hey Miley,
What’s up? It’s your pal, Josh. I couldn’t help but notice your latest photo shoot has caused a little controversy. I’m sure you’ve heard what some people are saying: that you’re trying to grow up too fast, that you’re not mature enough to be posing like that, yadda yadda yadda. Some of these people are probably just jealous that you’ve amassed millions of fans and made millions of dollars (congrats on that, by the way). Others may actually have your best interests in mind.
Here’s my advice:
- Be yourself, not who others expect you to be. Just because you found Lindsay Lohan’s playbook doesn’t mean you have to steal the plays.
- Remember you’re a public role model–everything you do will be imitated by thousands of girls, so all of your decisions have consequences. (If that realization scares the Hannah Montana out of you, don’t freak out. If you need help, I got your back.)
- Sexually exploiting yourself is not a sign of maturity; it’s a sign of insecurity. Think about it.
BTW, I hate to be the one to break it to you, but…FACT: you are still a kid. Embrace it. Being a kid rocks. Sure, you’re independently wealthy and wildly successful, but that doesn’t make you all gown up.
In your face but on your side,
// josh
Hey You, what do you think about Miley Cyrus’ photos in Elle? What’s your advice?
4 Comments
Josh – incredibly well written and what I would say to my kid. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with sexuality – but I do think there’s a point when others are putting their interests above the girl/woman being photographed (in this case). The one thing I tell my kid, make sure you know what’s going on – it’s so easy to be manipulated and realize it way too late. We all want to be liked!
I watched the videos and saw the other outfits she wore for the same photo shoot. Of the 5 outfits I saw, only one could be considered a bit…risky. Her pink skirt and sweater combo was adorable, and conservative. The yellow dress was sleek, a little sexy, but just enough for a teenage girl her age. The one outfit was a pair of pants and a turtle neck top. Personally, I have seen worse in the halls of my high school, with thongs hanging out of pants and shirts so low you can make out the edge of a nipple, its nice to see there is a teenager who can dress sexy while covering up. I hope other teenagers take that lesson from Miley.
I know so many seventh grade girls who worship the ground she walks on. I feel like she’s not ready for that kind of burden… which is too bad for her and a tragedy for the 12 and 13 year olds who want to be her.
she shows way too much skin. to be honest i really don’t like her. have u seen what she wears in her videos when she’s not Hannah Montana? yikes! as far as I’m concerned she could be in Lindsay Lohan’s playbook.